July 31, 2009

Something Strange... ;)

Hehe... I am feeling so weird writing this already!! :P
I know this is so...umm...ajeeb!! Strange!! All of us, in our late teens or early twenties are bound to know the internet, this gtalk, yahoo messenger thingies...we do make new friends, endlessly chat with them, hide the mobile and message them...blah blah blah! Innit?

But just imagine, how strange it is if our mom makes new friends and chats with them through sms...obviously without hiding her phone...duh!! Earlier, it was my mom who shouted on me whenever she saw me messaging my friends without even looking at the keypad...and now, when I see my mom messaging her friends...umm... i notice her message typing speed has increased!! Oh lord, hell, why am I being so possessive about her!!

Out of the blues, when she shouted on me - "Aarthiiiii, whom are you messaging?? What are you kids up to??"...I always felt like asking her what her problem was and why she could not give me the space I want!! But hell, now when I see her messaging her friends... I feel like snatching away that phone from her and asking her friend - "What is your problem??? Can't you just stay away you fool???"
Sigh! Sigh!
I now understand the reason behind her behaviour when she objected to my messaging my friends or talking on the phone for long. Damn, this is a terrible feeling I tell ya! :P
Is it out of that possessive feeling that we tend to feel awkward? Or, is it because of the fear we have that something wrong should not happen to them? I just don't know what it is... It is just that i'll take a little time to accept that she can also make new friends, she can also feel the same way I do! Am going crazyyyyy!!!!! :P :P

But yes, amidst all these, one thing that I have realized is that...she understands me more now! :) She understands why we need those friends in our lives, what makes them so special for us! She understands why we need to keep in touch with them...messages, calls...everything! :)

Haaaa....phew! Relieved! ;)
I love you mom. Trust me, I am a very protective and possessive smart li'l kid you have!! I don't want to see something wrong happening to you. Please forgive me if I behave irrationally at times!! Want to see you happy always...

Artz! :)

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20 comments:

Sowmi said...

good your mom atlast understands you...
Worsthu case... my mom drops the mobile if it vibrates lolz!! she never uses mobile and keep on scolding me... I always wanted to teach her.. but then she says I don't wanna know such crap... I dono how she is managing without mobile... so we make it a point that someone either me or my sister or my dad go with her when she goes out.. lol!

Aarthi said...

Hehehe...cho chuweet! :)

And yaa finally my mom understands what we kids are up to!! :)

kasabiangirl said...

Good to know you are such a smart little kid...you are very protective of her aren't you?? It's really nice to know you care :)

Aarthi said...

Yes, with her friends thingie on now, I have grown really protective of her! :)

:)

Arun Kumar said...

he he..
u have a chuweet relationship with ur mom...
possessive, protective n loving...

my mom once asked my how to chat in net... (she already knows Emailing)
:-D
i replied "u have to know programming mummy..."
n still she doesnt know...

Anurag said...

It happens ...But mom is mom naa ...So there's always that connection ..It's all very mutual and both know that

ppssst ..Make your mum read this :P

Aarthi said...

@ Arun,

;) Hahhahah! Smart! :D

Aarthi said...

@ Anurag,

Hehehe... yup I do realize what you said! :)
But still, am like this extra protective about her! :D

freelancer said...

smart li'l kid my foot!!!!
hehe...so aunty's got new frienz...y is somebody so J? haha

~PrIncEsS nUcHu~ said...

hahahah.. God bless :)

Aarthi said...

@ FL,

Why would I be J!!! Din't you read the post carefully?? :P

Aarthi said...

@ Nuchu,

Laughing? When will someone understand! :P :P

Arv said...

I started to read this with a laugh... but somewhere in the midst of these lines... my thoughts went astray...

and your last lines... they sounded quite familiar to what I used to say to another woman for whom I cared a lot (she was not my mom)...

if only some people understood :(

Shravan | ശ്രവണ്‍ said...

haha :) smiles and smiles :D

parzi said...

woww...thats so cool...and it feels great to know that u share such a wonderful relationship with ur mom...and this mutual understanding,love and possessiveness makes it all d more beautiful..
hope it remains that way always!touch wood!

Aarthi said...

@ Arv,

Sigh!! :|

Aarthi said...

@ Shravan,

;) You bet!

Aarthi said...

@ Parzi,

It does feel that way?? :P
Jeez, am so possessive! :|

Thank you for the wishes sweetheart! :)

chirag said...

she is mom so she has to care ourselves
and we are her children's so we also care for her

asit dhal said...

every body is changing....some slowly...some very fast !!!!